Thursday, August 18, 2005
8:31 PM
suddenly rmbed a show i watched not too long ago..tat made mi feel tat..sometimes..we..as another person's lover..shld reflect..:)..the story is about a couple..whose relationship is on rocks..the gal claimed tat the guy is not romantic enough..and got fed up with him..he cldnt change..for all he tried..then the gal daoed him..even said wanted to break up with him..the guy..for loving the gal so much so..took on a 'course' to learn..with another gal..how to be romantic..in this 'course' the gal will teach him how to be romantic..say out all the stuff..things to do etc..one instance is she taught him wad roses meant..1 rose means wad..2 roses mean wad..etc..until 12 roses..which he ever tot he will ever know..then even force him to put down his ego..propose to the instructor(was supposed to role play as his gf)..in streets..smth like orchard in singapore..hahaz..then in the end..he went to his gf..and told her..(itz a chinese show..)"yi duo mei gui dai biao ...(i forgot) liang duo mei gui dai biao...(i cant rmb..:p) (shocked the gf actualli..coz hez a egoistic man whom she tot he will nv know how to be romantic..)..zai zhe duan shi qi..wo zhen de hen nu li..hen nu li qu xue zhen me zuo ge lang man de nan peng you..dan shi..wo zuo bu dao..zhen de zuo bu dao..wo shi zhong bu neng fu he ni de yao qiu..zhuo yi ge lang man de nan peng you..shuo yi..wo men fen shou ba.."with tears flooding his eyes..he turned n ran away..leaving the gal alone..the gal cried..stunned there for a moment..reflect..ran after the guy..and hugged him from behind..i think..sometimes..we get disappointed tat our loved one cant turn out to be the way we wanted..n sometimes..get so frustrated with them n wan to break up(for some..they even did..)..but..think about it..r we juz being plain selfish?we r not hoping to change the person for his/her own good..itz for our satisfaction..nan dao..if he/she cannot live up to it..u r juz going to give the relationship up n look for another one who is able to satisfies u?if tats the case i think we realli take relationship too lightly le..i feel tat relationship shldnt be juz relationship..no responsibility no nothing..if u go into a relationship juz for pleasure..to be proud tat u have tat person..he/she is urs..juz for tat..i think for fu qian leh..juz like going for one-night stand..(oopss..cant believe i said tat..but realli tats wad i feel mahz..)..wadever happened to the qualities u like in him/her in the beginning tat made u wan to go into a relationship with him/her..have u all forgot tat?keep tat in mind..n jia you..feel tat relationship..if we can..make it last..know tat time i ask wt..how u know he will be ur future husband?..she replied..dunno..take one step at a time lor..find it true..but anyway..think ive crapped too much..wad im trying to say here is tat..dun take ur loved one for granted..nv nv..dun change him/her juz to live up to ur expectations..coz u r changing the person u loved originally..perhaps into someone u wldnt have loved otherwise..
Wednesday, August 10, 2005
5:29 PM
argh!!everytime i start talking about things relating to relationships..i find miself mature so much..thinkings n all..i think all of us..mi clique n us all matured le bahz..i miss the gd old times..i miss crapping..i miss laming..im not as lame as before!!sobz..shhh..dun diao arh..but realli..i miss the jumpy cheerful mi..walking down orchard..with pearly hold hands n skipped down the road without any of the ppl we know calling us to stop it or giving us the 'i dunno u' look..then laugh soooo super loudly with wei ting n her face will turn red..those times back in the past we juz scream whenever we wanted..ehz..at least in those so very frequent competitions..then those times talk about relationship matters i will suddenly feel that i have such a mature mind..miss those times..but i guess i will juz put a full stop to it..no point keep thinking n missing n being sad..guess all of us gotta move forward n not look back most of the times like i do..but seriously..nature's first green is gold..today is 10 aug..left zh for almost a year le..i miss the sch..bet the sch also miss mi rite..ahahahz..miss those times when i dun dare to go toilet alone n wei ting will tease mi about tat..those times..hmmm..nvm..shant continue anymore..or else i'll nv stop..full stop!oh ya..back to it..i think i matured a lot..thinkings n all..guess all of us do..from sec sch to jc..the transition is huge..sometimes i dun even recognise who i am..coz..certain thinkings are soooo different from wad i use to have..but still..who dun..we r growing up..
